I realized after I completed my last post, I didn’t tell you my due date! Well, here it is: July 30. The ultrasound revealed that I was pregnant with 1 baby.
Alright, moving on to screening tests. Oh ya, I forgot to mention that on January 1st, my insurance changed making it necessary for me to find an OB/GYN. I searched and got information from family and friends. I wanted someone nearby but that option was not available. I didn’t prefer having to drive to town but it was better than the doctor that was only available every Tuesdays. Plus, starting a job, I didn’t have time to take off nor did I want to take unpaid leave. I was looking for a doctor that was available on the weekends as well. So, we decided to see on of my sister-in-laws OB in town.
At my first appointment, the nurse asked me a lot of questions and I filled out some questionnaire as well. When I met with the doctor, we went over all the information and he asked if I wanted to participate in a screening. I told him that it didn’t matter because either way, we would be keeping the baby. The choice was up to me. So, I agreed to complete the screening. I thought it was only one but as we talked about it more, I understood that it was 2 screenings. He gave me the time frames for when they’re completed and then said he would send a requisition to Queens Medical Center (QMC) because they do the screenings. I agreed and that was it. I left and had lunch with my husband. While we were eating I got a call from QMC to schedule my 1st screening. I was really surprised at the prompt response, very impressive. I scheduled my first screening.
I really wish I could remember the names of the screenings but I can’t. All I know is the first screening was an ultrasound and blood work for down syndrome. I completed it at 11 weeks, almost 12 weeks. I thought everything went well. It was pretty cool that I had my own bathroom, adjustable lighting, and a curtain for privacy. Also, the jelly they use for the ultrasound was in a warmer. Lol. It was thoughtful, rather than it be cold. I liked the fact that the technician gave me a USB to put all the ultrasound pictures on. She reminded me to bring the USB to the second screening as well. Having the USB is really cool and quite up-to-speed with the technology available now. I’m grateful to have that, in addition to the 8 pictures the technician put on it. Also, the technician printed out all the pictures she placed on the USB and gave them to me before I left. I remember her telling me that now I will have the pictures forever and I can put them on facebook or wherever. I told her her I was happy to have them but probably won’t be placing it on facebook. Lol.
A week or 2 after my first screening, my OB/GYN called and shared the results of the first screening. He explained that I was low risk. Phew, that was a relief. After all we experienced trying to become pregnant, I figured I wouldn’t get too much relief when I actually got pregnant. So, hearing the doctor tell me the results showed I was low risk, was awesome. I was so relieved and at the same time, still not convinced that my pregnancy would be smooth sailing. Nevertheless, I was grateful.
At my second screening, my husband came with me. It was around week 18-19. I knew this screening would be looking at the physical development of our baby. For instance, a cleft lip. Also, the screening looked at kidney function, blood flow through the heart, the blood flow from the umbilical cord to the baby, etc. I gave the technician my USB and she loaded the pictures on it. It was so interesting to me to watch the things she looked for. One of the coolest things I saw was my baby’s nose and lips. I know you may be wondering why I think that’s so cool, but I find it neat. I knew she was looking for any physical concerns like a cleft lip. This was the 3rd ultrasound I’ve had during my pregnancy and it was neat to see the growth. But seeing my baby’s nose and lips was cool because at that point I knew our baby was still very small but the technician could zoom in for a closer look, something that would not have been as successful in previous ultrasounds, for obvious reasons. Of course, there are a lot of cool things to see during an ultrasound. I remember while my ultrasound was going on that the lab technician came in and drew my blood. Either she was really good or I was too focused on the ultrasound to feel anything. Lol. I think she was good because she drew my blood from a different arm and found my vein right away.
Towards the end of the ultrasound, the technician asked if we wanted to know the gender of our baby. I told her we did and then she proceeded to move the probe all over my stomach. She did mention that she would try her best. I knew that meant cooperation from the baby would be necessary. Lol. As we looked at the screen, it didn’t take long for her to scan our baby’s gender. The technician said, “Well that’s pretty obvious, no questions there.” I tried not to bust out laughing, instead I let out a little chuckle. I immediately turned and looked at my husband. We smiled and then I looked back at the screen. We’re having a BOY!!
At the end of our ultrasound, the technician wanted to try the 3D probe. We agreed. For those of you that aren’t familiar with the 3D probe, it’s a little more rounded with something that looks like a ping pong ball at the tip. Not sure if that helps. The 3D probe was quite entertaining for us. The technician tried so hard to get a good picture but our baby didn’t make it easy for her. Each time she got a good view, he would move his hand and block his face. We just laughed. She printed pictures for us, 11 pictures to be exact. Soon after, we left.
I was relieved, not because we’re having a boy, but because we were able to find out the gender of our baby. For my husband and I, we didn’t have a preference. You know, when you wait so long (or what feels like so long) you take what the Lord gives you/trusts you with. I was also relieved to be able to refer to my baby with a gender. I read that it’s important to talk to your baby early in pregnancy and all this time, I’ve referred to the baby as it or baby. Now I could say he! Lol. It seems so minor but it was definitely a relief for me. 🙂
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